Few Questions About My Boyfriend?
A few nights ago we were having sex and after wards he looked at me and he asked why are you bigger and i was like huh? and he swears that i have gotten bigger ever since i started my new job (CNA). And he thinks that i have cheated on him and i swear to GOD that i HAVE NOT ever cheated on him.
Another question: He says that he is not ready for marriage and we have been together for almost two years. I got a promise ring but that is it. He also says that he wants to marry me but just not ready yet? What what is going on in his head?
Just need to know from a guys point of veiw because i cant seem to get it out of him thanks in advance
If he is suspicious of cheating the only think you can do is talk to him and assure him you have been faithful. If he can’t trust you now then there will only be more problems down the road.
The issue of marriage is complex. I don’t know your ages so this may or may not apply. Marriage can be difficult if one or both of you is still in school because most people don’t know where they will end up being once they graduate. With marriage you need to think about not only yourself when getting a job. This can create a lot of extra stress especially when the other person is either still in school, already has a job, or can only get a job in a different location. Don’t be afraid to talk to him about it. If he isn’t willing to be open with you now then it could lead to more problems later on.
Marriage is a big responsibility. You’ve gotta let him have his space and let his words be heard. Explain to him what you explained to us and I’m sure he’ll understand. He’ll know that you are ready and take it under consideration.
He seems confused and most likely needs a break to think things through and get his mind set. He’s a very confused guy right now he might end up telling you that he might want a break to think things through and all that but he’ll come back to you if he really loves you.
He’s scared that you dont love him in the marriage sense of the word, and he just wants to make sure that you love him and that he loves you.
Sorry im not a guy, but i think hid feelings are beginning to fade…
about the “bigger” comment – he couldnd find a better time to make this comment than right after sex, thats stupid of him.
I know you want a guy’s point of view, but I’ll tell you what I have to say anyway.
About you getting bigger, I’m not sure what to tell you.
The marriage deal, what does he mean by ,”I want to marry you but I’m not ready yet”?
Will he be ready in a day, week, month, or a year?
How long does he intend on waiting?
biggeer wat a loser