When Should I Try To Have A Baby?
I am nineteen years old and I am in my sophomore year of nursing school. I am working part-time as a cna making 8 dollars per hour while my fiance is 21 and working in fast food making minimum wage. He has an associate degree in business admin and has two more years until he gets his bachelors degree.
I dont want to get pregnant during school because I feel like it would put a lot more stress on me because of the heavy lifting, smells, doctors apts, maternity leave, etc. Also, once the baby is born I would never be able to see him or her because I will have class and clinicals everyday and will probably work part-time on weekends.
After I graduate, I dont know if it would be a good idea to get pregnant within my first year of being an RN. I do not want to wait too long because I dont want to be a tired mom that cant do anything with her child, and my fiance is two years older than me so he feels the same.
My fiance and I both really want to have a child but we dont know when would be the best time to try to concieve.
What is the best age to try to concieve a child in my situation?
I would wait until you both have stability in your work and schedule. Making sure you have the time and financial means to support a baby.
After you are done with college and have a steady job. Personally, I think you are too young to have a child still. You should wait and do all of your life’s dreams before you share your life with a new member(: 18 and a fiance? Wow that’s really young. Are you sure he’s the one?
After you are married to your so-called “fiance.”
Get married, and get ALL your school done first. No need to rush it, your young.
When u hav a boyfriend
if you want your child to take care of you when you get old plan to have a minimum of five kids..why five? so, its easier for you to convince one of them to give up their lifestyle to take responsibility for you when you get old…..if your born after 1964 and you want some social security when you retire, plan to have at least 20 kids…considering that giving birth for women becomes risking at 30-35 yrs old, and a man’s sperm virility (how fast the sperm wiggles, the more it wiggles, the more healthy the child will be) starts to slow down at 40 yrs old…you don’t have time to waste…Octo-mom had it right. If you can’t take care of them then let the government take care of them either by working with the human services or foster care…either case, both of you need to take parenting classes and CHILD SUPPORT classes, especially the man, this would alleviate custody issues if the marriage goes sour. Oh, yes, prenuptial agreements are essential, it’s a snap shot, just in case, before everything goes to hell later on. So, Mister, can you handle 5 to 20 small businesses? …Am I laughing?
Marry Mr. Wonderful and then think about it. Get yourself established in a career first and finish nursing. If you do not do that now, and you have a child, you won’t be getting married , you won’t finish school and he will get custody because you won’t be able to make it financially. Set yourself up, first and be able to support yourself. Respect yourself enough to have a career for that baby. You will always need to work and there is not better time to finish your education than BEFORE the baby.